Hey Radiant Rebel, 

Remember when we signed up for “glow and flow” but accidentally ended up in “hustle and hide”?

Same. 

Pour some cacao☕️, let us drag this sneaky wounded feminine pattern into the daylight so we can give it a glam makeover. 💄🩰

Picture this. You launch a program, but an hour later you are doom-scrolling, convinced nobody will buy. 😱

Solution? You open thirty tabs, design new bonuses, rewrite the sales page at midnight, then post motivational memes while secretly praying nobody books a call because you feel exposed.

That, my love, is Hustle & Hide.

Think Pinky and The Brain (🐭my fave cartoon of all time).

One part frantically tries to conquer the world, the other part whispers, “But if we win, people might hate us or be mean, quick, turn off the lights!” 😶‍🌫️☠️

The Anatomy of Hustle & Hide

• Hustle: Over-doing, over-proving, over-thinking. Masc suit, tie too tight, coffee IV. Underneath? Anxiety that magic will not show up unless we crack the whip, hard. 🗂🖍📝💣

• Hide: Collapsing your energy field until even your guides need Google Maps to find you. You ghost your newsletter 👻, speak in disclaimers, smile nicely at people you should send packing and wonder why nobody “feels” you. 🎭

This combo is not ambition plus humility.

It is a self-cancelling spell 🪄: pedal to the metal, foot on the brake.

Meet the other H-sisters 🤹🤸🧍‍♂️

While we are here, let us gossip about their cousins:

• Hold: the control freak. She clutches every timeline, to-do list, partner, and price point until her knuckles turn white. 🤺

• Help: the over-giver. She rescues everyone, then crafts martyr poetry about how tired and resentful she is. 🩼👿

• Hate-on-Me: the inner mean girl. She delivers TED-Talk-level roasts in your bathroom mirror.💬

 All five are brilliant bodyguards hired by your nervous system back when the village felt dicey.

The problem? You are not in that village evading the witch-hunters anymore, you are on a global stage, and those guards are blocking the spotlight.

Alchemy Time: Flip the H into an A

Grab a pen ✏️.

Draw a capital H. Now close the vertical lines into a triangle, and boom, you have an A.

That is the move. Let's break it down:

Old Move: Hustle. 

New Move: Assert your power, take aligned action, then rest like a cat melting in a pool of sunlight. ☀️

Old Move: Hide. 

New Move: Attract through magnetic presence, let your aura do the networking.

Old Move: Hold. 

New Move: Allow the universe to co-drive, loosen the grip one breath at a time.

Old Move: Help. 

New Move: Abide beside others, empower rather than rescue.

Old Move: Hate-on-Me. 

New Move: Adore your quirks, post the selfie, cash the compliment. 

A micro-practice for each flip

• Assert Breath: Five deep breaths, then speak one boundary in real time.

• Attract Aura Stretch: Imagine your field expanding three metres all around, filling the space around you, aaannd hold for thirty seconds...

• Allow Drop: Exhale and drop your shoulders, say, “Spirit, Universe, God, That which is greater: you handle the how.” Then relax. Make some tea, go touch grass, take a nap 🥱.

• Abide Witness: Listen to a friend or colleague for two minutes, without any advice or solutions.

• Adore Mirror: Compliment yourself out loud, bonus points if it rhymes.

Why this matters for manifestation

The feminine principle magnetises. When she is wounded she dimmers the light or burns out the bulb . 

Balanced feminine energy is that sweet zone where sovereignty meets surrender. You show up in your power, claim your desire, and then let life woo you back. 

That is quantum physics in a gorgeous, long, red dress.💸💫💃

A Real-life example for you

I developed this framework because the Hustle Hide pattern is showing up so clearly with one of my 6-month mentorship clients. 

She is building this amazing, disruptor business that can change the way we do business and economic empowerment, but burning herself out as she dances constantly between this hiding and hustling.  

And we haven't even begun tackling her inner mean girl.

She is here to change the world and instead she’s busy trying to outrun her to-do list, while apologising for her genius. 

She was made to lead revolutions, not spreadsheets. 

Once we flip that H into an A, the world better be ready, because this woman isn’t just building a business, she’s building a new paradigm. 💥

And burnout? Not invited. 🛑

Feel seen? 

Great. Pick your dominant H-sister, do her matching micro-practice for the next week, and tag me when the magic lands.

Because it will.

Queens, the age of burnt-out boss babes is so 2020. 

This era is about Reigning, ruling your realm with velvet gloves, boundaries, belly laughs, and a calendar that has more white space than a minimalist’s living room. 🗓

Close the H, stand tall in your A, and let the universe slide into your DMs.

(PS: If you want the full playbook on flipping Hustle & Hide into Assert & Attract, my Mentorship doors are open. You can apply on my website.

Bring your wounded feminine, leave with a crown 👑 and the kingdom your soul came here to build 🔨.)

Calling in miracles in big font,

Melanie

Feminine Flow Alchemist | Retired Hustler | Soul Specialist | "Hiding is so last timeline"-Activist